All human beings are similar to their actions, behavior and temperment in the begining of the journey of life. The first attempt towards their identification is made by parents giving their child a name. As he grows he starts recognizing by that name. "A person without a name is like a rudderless boat". This is the first stage of exploring yourself and your identity.
Many factors like parental influence, social pressure and growing up environment bring out the changes in temperament as we grow. A single experience may evoke two different from two different people. While one person may learn by seeing the positive part of the experience, another person may be negatively affected.
'Ego' is perhaps the most important aspect of our identity. We need to have self respect to develop our personality, but like everything even ego should have a limit. Some people think they are perfect but it is impossible for anyone to be perfect. When people think this way, they leave no scope for further development. Today there are many good speakers but very few listeners. People with bloated egos are not good communicators and people with false egos end up nowhere. If we have an ego,we can use it to our advantage to find our self. Thus, 'exploring' is important and it lets us know who we really are.
Life is just a stream of experiences which merge into one another. Experiencing our self enables us to take lessons from your day to day challenges and helps us in becoming a better person. Experiences develop different features of our personality. We can learn from them, take cue from the good ones and learn lessons from bad ones.
Both of these experiencing and exploring, leads us to improving and developing our self. This makes us a better human being and makes our life worthwhile.
Many factors like parental influence, social pressure and growing up environment bring out the changes in temperament as we grow. A single experience may evoke two different from two different people. While one person may learn by seeing the positive part of the experience, another person may be negatively affected.
'Ego' is perhaps the most important aspect of our identity. We need to have self respect to develop our personality, but like everything even ego should have a limit. Some people think they are perfect but it is impossible for anyone to be perfect. When people think this way, they leave no scope for further development. Today there are many good speakers but very few listeners. People with bloated egos are not good communicators and people with false egos end up nowhere. If we have an ego,we can use it to our advantage to find our self. Thus, 'exploring' is important and it lets us know who we really are.
Life is just a stream of experiences which merge into one another. Experiencing our self enables us to take lessons from your day to day challenges and helps us in becoming a better person. Experiences develop different features of our personality. We can learn from them, take cue from the good ones and learn lessons from bad ones.
Both of these experiencing and exploring, leads us to improving and developing our self. This makes us a better human being and makes our life worthwhile.
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dherai dherai ramro
dherai dherai dhanyabaad...:)
dherai dherai swagatam...
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